Do you worry you may never feel as connected to your teenage son as you did to the boy he once was?
If our sons aren’t talking to us, or spending far less time with us, how can we support them through this vulnerable stage of their lives?
What if the divide which may be opening up between you doesn’t close, or knit back together again?
What if the fallout of these teenage years is that the rift continues to widen and fails to heal?
Will you ever feel as connected to your grown up son as you did when he was a boy?
HAVE YOU FOUND YOURSELF THINKING…
“I feel like I’m losing him”
“Maybe I’ve done something wrong?”
“Why doesn’t he talk about things with me like he used to?”
If so, take a deep breath and let it out… s l o w l y
You’re not the only mum feeling like this – honestly, we’re everywhere!
Let me explain – please click on the screen below…
Hmmmm… I’m not so sure that’s always true
Your son isn’t the only one who is changing – YOU are changing too!
It assumes that there is nothing you can do about it – you’ve just got to suck it up.
In reality, we all know that sometimes it doesn’t ‘all work out fine’.
How’s your sons’
adolescence
affecting YOUR
life?
I know these are the worries that Mums struggle with. I talked with Mums at school parents evenings, when I met with them as their sons’ teacher.
I read about them every day on social media.
I listen to Mums talk about them as part of my role as a Life Coach.
Maybe you feel like giving up trying to reconnect with your son?
(That’s ok, there are times when I feel like that too!)
But it is so
important that we
don’t.
Here’s why:
I see how these worries affect
teenage boysI know how it shows in their daily
attitude, behaviour and mental
wellbeing.I understand how feeling that they
are a disappointment to you – or are
causing you anxiety and grief- can
make teenage sons feel worthless
and erode their self-esteem.
A set of short films, written and presented by Caroline Jacobs,
specifically designed for and about
Mums of Teenage Boys and Young Men.
WHY? Because the vast majority of advice on coping with adolescence fails to consider
the most important woman in your sons life
– YOU his MUM
YOU ARE THE ONE!
His key, his guide, his role-model – the one he always watches
(even though he pretends he’s not looking)
It’s THE film package which helps get your son to spend more time with you
(without threatening to take his X-Box away…)
(Also IDEAL for Dads, Grandparents, Step-Parents, Aunts, Uncles, Teachers, Coaches – in fact
for ANYONE who lives or works with teenage boys and young men)
FILM 1
‘WHAT’S HAPPENING TO
YOUR SON?’
(18MlNS)
You’ll discover more
about:
The changes happening
in your sons brain which
determine his emotions,
behaviour and actions –
(enabling you to separate
what he does from who
he is)
The Teen Illusion v The
Real Deal – (see beyond
what he ‘s doing to
understand how he ‘s
really feeling.)
FILM 2
WHAT’S HAPPENINC TO
YOU?’
(15 MINS)
We look at your journey
as a Mum including:
Why your emotions need
attention too
Escaping from the spiral
of misunderstanding
between you and your
son.
The changes you have
(and haven’t yet) made
since becoming a Mum
of a Teenage Son.
FILM 3
‘7 STEPS TO FEEL
MORE CONNECTED’
(22MlNS)
Practical strategies and
actions guiding you:
How to deal better with
your son’s attitude.
How to stop arguments
from starting.
Becoming a ‘Mum Ninja’
at changing the script
How to work together
instead of ‘at’ each other.
Achieving independence
for the both of you.
In addition to the Films, there are also …
To make sense of what you see and hear..
To make sense of what you feel ...
To make sense of what you have learnt…
Let’s keep exploring the benefits this Film Package could make to your life .
“As a mother of two sons, this video series is invaluable. Caroline is like a mum
whisperer. She’s so encouraging as she guides me along and makes it so easy to
understand the changes that are going on in a young man’s life. I can only imagine
how many Mom and Son relationships are going to be transformed and made
whole again.”
PATRICIA KELIKANI, MUM OF TWO SONS. MULTI EMMY AWARD WINNING
FILMMAKER, CALIFORNIA, USA
There is SO MUCH we can do to help Your Son AND YOU,
get through these tricky years more smoothly.
COME TO TERMS WITH HOW
YOU’RE FEELING ABOUT YOUR
SON GROWINC UP
(and how it’s 0k to fee/ sad / cross /
lonely / let down)
GAIN A BETTER
UNDERSTANDING OF THE
DRAMATIC CHANGES
HAPPENING IN YOUR
SONS’ BRAIN
(so that you can develop a more positive
and close relationship with your son)
BOOST YOUR RANGE OF
STRATEGIES TO RESOLVE
DISAGREEMENTS BETWEEN
YOU
(imagine no more nagging or
disappointed sighing about overflowing
rubbish bins or him being late again!)
COMMUNICATE TOGETHER
MORE EFFECTIVELY
(no more shouting or slamming doors)
SEE THROUGH THE
‘TEEN ILLUSION’
TO UNDERSTAND
‘THE REAL DEAL’
(so that misunderstandings between you
happen rarely, rather than every day)
SWAP ‘FIXING’ FOR
SUPPORTING
(resulting in true independence for him
and more peaceful nights sleep for you!)
Imagine just how much happier you’ll be when you’re feeling more
connected to your son.
“It’s really tough being a mother at times and it’s easy to forget just how much their brains are developing. Adolescence is a huge transformation and I really appreciate this support from Caroline.”
NAOMIE ELLA – MUM AND MATERNAL WELLNESS THERAPIST AT MOTHERHOOD TRANSITIONS, FOUNDER OF ‘THE MAMAS WELLBEINC HUB’
If you’re thinking
“Great!! This is EXACTLY what I need“
then please click below to get your Film Package NOW!
Film 1 – What’s Happening to Your Son?
Film 2 – What’s Happening to You?
Film 3 – 7 Steps to Feeling More Connected
Reflect and Review Guides (x3)
7 Steps Toolkit
BONUS! Film for Your Son
BONUS! Film Package Slides Guide
BONUS! 6 month membership of MOGUS
(value £40)
(value £40)
(value £40)
(value £9)
(value £7)
(value £27)
(value £120)
(value £17)
Total Value = £300
Buy Today for = £37
An extra film made
ESPECIALLY FOR YOUR
SON, helping him to:
Find out what YOU have
been learning.
Understand how
adolescence may be
affecting him.
Be aware of how you, as his
Mum, may feel about him
growing up.
No need to take screenshots
or scribble notes when
watching!
Here is your own Slide
Guide of the slides in ALL 4
FILMS.
Print out a few as handy
prompts (ideal for sticking
on your fridge or desk)
Or turn into your own
digital reference guide –
always with you on your
mobile or tablet!
‘Mums of Growing Up Sons’
is our online community for
sharing, supporting and
laughing with (and
occasionally providing a
vitual hanky to) women
whose sons have grown
taller than they are. The
purpose is to enable mums
with young adult sons
(including myself!) to
develop and maintain a
better relationship with our
sons as they progress
through early adulthood.
Are you ready to go upstairs to start re-connecting with your son?…
‘Before I watched the first of Caroline’s films I didn’t understand why my 14 year old son was
spending so much time on his X Box, and being argumentative. Caroline explains how his
brain is changing and that this leads to certain behaviours. She has definitely helped me to
improve how I understand him and how adolescence is affecting him. I can’t wait to watch
Film 2!”
MARIANNE MCCALLUM – MUM OF TWO TEENS, PROFESSIONAL PLANNING DIRECTOR, UK
Hello, I’m Caroline Jacobs
After spending over 15 years working with Teenagers and
Young Adults as a Qualified High School Teacher and
School Leader in the IJK, I knew that the emotional needs
of Teenage Boys were not being met.
This motivated me to discover more about the effects
that adolescence has on Teen boys’ brains.
I’m a Mum of three sons myself- one fully grown, one
teenager and one little one. I’ve gone through it, I’m going
through it and I’ll be doing it again in a few years time!
Now, as an Adolescent Wellbeing Coach for Teenage Boys
and Young Adults, I specialise in understanding how the
male teenage brain works and how this affects their
mental health and behaviour.
With fewer sources of support available for parents, boys
and teachers, I’m passionate about improving the mental
health and happiness of young men and their Mums,
through my ‘Mums of Growing Up Sons’ Facebook
community and specialised coaching services at Caroline
Jacobs – Life Coach for Young Adults.
SO, HOW
DOES THIS
HELP YOU?
My ‘How to Feel More Connected to your
Crowing Up Son’ Film Package helps you to
understand the right ways to be there, whilst
coping with how to let him go.
(something which all Mums deserve support
with!)
This is where I’m supposed to apply the marketing
tactic of
‘ YOU ONLY HAVE 48 HOURS TO BUY’.
It’s called ‘The Scarcity Factor’
It’s often just a gimmick to increase sales, rather than based on any
genuine need for a limited timescale, yet it works rather well
(due to the tendency of our neurological pathways to ‘panic buy’ if
something is in short supply e.g. eggs and flour!).
BUT! … I don’t feel comfortable doing this (it
gives me the ‘cringe’).
I Believe Integrity Is
Everything
– so I’m going to tell you
the truth..
(as I KNOW you don’t need any more bias
or fake news thrown at you)..
My plan is to release these films
as a key part of a
4 week Summer Course for
Mums– worth £479.
However!!
I realised that with so many families
facing social restrictions
(with physical space and emotions
being S Q U E E Z ED) I needed to get
these films out to you ASAP!!
So… there is a bit of scarcity, as you
won’t be able to purchase this Film
Package once the Summer Course
begins.
And it will never be offered for just
£37 again.
(but I’m not saying you only have 30 mins to grab it — go make a nice coo/ drink and read through this rather GORGEOUS offer again xx)
I PROMISE THAT THESE FILMS:
– will never appear on Youtube or my website for
free; and
– will only be available for those who purchase
now or buy access to my forthcoming course
(as I KNOW how seeing things that you’ve paid for
being accessed elsewhere for free really sucks don’t
worry, this isn’t happening here)
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“My son is just 4 years old, but at this stage he is going through a developmental leap much like
the one he will go through later on. So watching this not only helps me now but also is
preparing me for putting in my own coping strategies for later on. This enables me, as a Mum,
to have more compassion for my boy, more patience and understanding”.
NAOMIE ELLA – MUM AND MATERNAL WELLNESS THERAPIST AT MOTHERHOOD
TRANSITIONS, FOUNDER OF ‘THE MAMAS WELLBEINC HUB’
EVERYTHING COVERED? GREAT!
Take another look at the contents of this film package
(devoted to bringing you and your teenage son closer again)
Film 1 – What’s Happening to Your Son?
Film 2 – What’s Happening to You?
Film 3 – 7 Steps to Feeling More Connected
Reflect and Review Guides (x3)
7 Steps Toolkit
BONUS! Film for Your Son
BONUS! Film Package Slides Guide
BONUS! 6 month membership of MOGUS
(value £40)
(value £40)
(value £40)
(value £9)
(value £7)
(value £27)
(value £120)
(value £17)
Total Value = £300
Buy Today for = £37
LET’S GET YOUR FILM PACKAGE TO WATCH STRAIGHT AWAY!
“l recommend Caroline’s film series for any mum who is feeling lost and concerned
about her relationship with her growing up son for whatever reason. I feel mums and
sons will find these videos helpful and can easily follow the practical suggestions
given, helping them to get their relationship back on track. “
ANNE COLDSMITH, BEHAVIOUR FIRST CONSULTANCY, MUM OF 2 TEENS
Some Final Thoughts …
Imagine if we can make this process easier to go through,
and for you both to feel more connected to each other?
Imagine if I can show you how to spend less time arguing
and hurting each other, and more time on building a better
relationship ?
Imagine if watching three short films will help you get to
the other side of this adolescence journey more quickly
and less painfully?
Imagine being all ‘tooled up‘ for potential awkward
conversations, irrational actions or intense emotions from
your teenage son?
Imagine being the Mum your son really needs you to be … right now
Let’s get started…
Caroline x
If you still have any questions, or are interested in receiving support for yourself or your son, then please:
Send me an email: hello@carolinejacobs.co.uk
Check out (and join!) our ‘Mums of Growing Up Sons’ Facebook group for advice, top tips and suport from
Mums just like you! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mumsofgrowingupsons/
Visit my booking page to arrange online support https://carolinejacobslifecoach/10t08.com
“I’m watching video 1 right now …and Wow! This is soooo good!!! High-five,
Caroline!! Not only is the quality so professional, but you’re amazing on camera and
the content is soooo valuable. The impact that you will have on others is so huge!.”
PATRICIA KELIKANI, MUM OF TWO SONS. MULTI EMMY AWARD WINNINC
FILMMAKER, CALIFORNIA, USA
“l recommend Caroline’s film series for any mum who is feeling lost and concerned
about her relationship with her growing up son for whatever reason. I feel mums and
sons will find these videos helpful and can easily follow the practical suggestions
given, helping them to get their relationship back on track.”
ANNE GOLDSMITH, BEHAVIOUR FIRST CONSULTANCY, MUM OF 2 TEENS
“Wonderful videos!! The way Caroline explains what’s really going on, neurologically,
is brilliant. I highly recommend these to anyone with sons, regardless of their age!”
NAOMIE ELLA – MUM AND MATERNAL WELLNESS THERAPIST AT MOTHERHOOD
TRANSITIONS, FOUNDER OF ‘THE MAMAS WELLBEINC HUB’
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